Last updated April 18, 2014. This list is also available in Tumblr reblog format, which has 8,000+ notes - thanks everyone!
The following are link and book recommendations, all evaluated myself, as helpful resources that relate to genderqueer and non-binary concepts and identities. If there is a resource you would like to suggest, please use the GQID submit form.
Genderqueer and Non-Binary Friendly Tumblrs
a-gender, all-none-or-inbetween, Closet Problems, crushingthebinary, DMAB Delightful, Fat Genderqueers!, The Feminine Neutrois, Freedom Centre: FC Yeah!, Fuck Yeah Androgyny!, Fuck Yeah Genderless, Fuck Yeah Gender Studies!, fyeahtransfashion, the gender bender agenda, The Gender Book, Genderforkr, GenderPanic, Gender Queeries, Genderqueer, The Genderqueer Activist, GenderQueer Confessions, Genderqueer Plus, Genderqueer Positivity, Genderqueer Pride, GenderQueer Problems, Gendered Intelligence, Género Queer y No-binario (Spanish), Hell Yeah Agender!, KNOW Homo, LGBTQ Asks, littlenonbinarythings, Heartland Trans* Wellness Group, Neutrois, Nonbinary, The Nonbinary Army, Non-binary Artists, Nonbinary Autistics!, Nonbinary Confessions, nonbinaryheadcanons, nonbinarynerd, nonbinaryparenting, The Non-Binary Safe Space, Nonbinary Sex, nonbinary-support, Non-Op, Practical Androgyny, Pride Flags for Us, The Pronoun Learning Resource, Queerability, Queer Dictionary, safequeersex, The Safe Space Network, Smashing the Binary, The —- Space!, T.R.A.N.S., Transcending Anatomy, Transgender Housing Network, The Transgender Teen’s Survival Guide, transqueery, Trans* Resource, Trans Student Equality Resources, Trans*toons, Tucking and Other Skills, waryofthebinary, We Are Gender-Fluid!, whatdoesenbymean, ygender[queer]
GQ and Non-Binary Friendly Subreddits
GQ and Non-Binary Friendly Livejournal Communities
GQ and Non-Binary Friendly deviantART Groups
Websites and FAQs
Androgyny Rarely Asked Questions, Crossdreamers, Genderfork, Genderology, Genderpedia, Genderqueer in the UK, GenderQueer Revolution, Gender Sphere, Gender Splendour, Heartland Trans* Wellness Group, Nonbinary.org, Non-Op: Another Option (Archived), pipisafoat: FAQ on Genderqueers, Gender Expression, and Gender Variance, Practical Androgyny, Queer Lexikon (German), Tipping the Scales, T-Vox, We Happy Trans, World Professional Association for Transgender Health, YGender
Organizations and Events: Click here for a list
Forums and Groups
AVEN: Gender Discussion, GenderQueer Atheists Group on Facebook, Last.fm: Genderqueers Group, Laura’s Playground, Scarleteen: Gender Issues, Steam Community: Genderqueer, Susan’s Place, #transchat, TransYada, TQ Nation, What is Gender?
Prounouns and Titles
The Art of Transliness: Gender Neutral Relational Terms, Gender Neutral Pronoun Blog, Gender Queeries: Gender Neutral/Queer Titles, Genderqueer in the UK: Misc, or Mx: A Gender-neutral Title, MIT’s Ally Toolkit: Gender Neutral Pronoun Usage, Warren Wilson: Using Gender-Neutral Language in Academic Writing
Articles: Click here for a list
Fun, Videos, Podcasts, & Performance
Agender Earthworm, Facts About Queers (Humor), Fuck Yeah Non-Binary Seahorse, Genderqueer Chat, Gendercast: Our Transmasculine Genderqueery, Genderqueer Giraffe, Gender Queeries, Kreative Korporation: Yay genderform! (a comprehensive and fun-to-play-with list of gender, sex, orientation, and more identities), Midwest Genderqueer, regender: A Different Kind of Translator, Trans Parrotfish
Gender Diversity Project, Gender Spectrum: Resources, Queer Teaching Tips, Safe Schools Coalition, TRANScending Identities: A Bibliography of Resources on Transgender and Intersex Topics, Trans What?: A Guide Towards Allyship
Sex Ed: Click here for a list
The Trevor Project: “The leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services” to LGBT youth: 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386) Also available for matters of less pressing urgency, Dear Trevor is an “online, non-time sensitive Question & Answer resource for young people with questions surrounding sexual orientation and gender identity.” A directory of previous questions in the category of Transgender/Genderqueer is also available.
Fashion and Transitional Gear: Click here for a list
Banner: This Journal is Gay/Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Transgender, Intersex, Genderqueer, Asexual Positive banner (with flags). Designed by Neth Dugan.
Note: Use Worldcat.org, the world’s largest global library catalog, to see if the book you’re seeking is available at a library near you or click the links below to be directed to an Amazon purchase link (when available).
The Gender Book - Mel Reiff Hill and Jay Mays
Gender Now Coloring Book - Maya Christina Gonzales
Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us - Kate Bornstein
Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation - Kate Bornstein
Books and essays by Ivan Coyote
Grrl Alex: A Personal Journey to a Transgender Identity - Alex Drummond
GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary - Joan Nestle, Riki Wilchins, Clare Howell
Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality - Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel
Queer Theory, Gender Theory - Riki Anne Wilchins
Read My Lips: Sexual Subversion and the End of Gender - Riki Anne Wilchins
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves (in-progress) - Laura Erickson-Schroth
whatever.odt (free!) - JD O’Meara
That’s Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
Transgender Voices: Beyond Women and Men - Lori B. Girshick and Jamison Green
Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender Identity - Reid Vanderburgh
(Looking for a list of books concerning gender, sex, and orientation that aren’t genderqueer specific instead? Click here)
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