Genderqueer Links and Books

Last updated June 28, 2014. This list is also available in Tumblr reblog format, which has 8,000+ notes - thanks everyone!

The following are link and book recommendations, all evaluated myself, as helpful resources that relate to genderqueer and non-binary concepts and identities. If there is a resource you would like to suggest, please use the GQID submit form.


Genderqueer and Non-Binary Friendly Tumblrs

a-gender, all-none-or-inbetweenCloset Problems, crushingthebinary, DMAB DelightfulFat Genderqueers!, The Feminine NeutroisFreedom Centre: FC Yeah!Fuck Yeah Androgyny!, Fuck Yeah GenderlessFuck Yeah Gender Studies!, fyeahtransfashionthe gender bender agendaThe Gender Book, Genderforkr, GenderPanicGender Queeries, Genderqueer, The Genderqueer ActivistGenderQueer Confessions, Genderqueer Plus, Genderqueer PositivityGenderqueer PrideGenderQueer ProblemsGendered IntelligenceGénero Queer y No-binario (Spanish), Hell Yeah Agender!KNOW HomoLGBTQ Asks, Life Outside the BinarylittlenonbinarythingsHeartland Trans* Wellness GroupNeutrois, Nonbinary, The Nonbinary ArmyNon-binary ArtistsNonbinary Autistics!, Nonbinary Confessions, nonbinaryheadcanons, nonbinarynerdnonbinaryparentingThe Non-Binary Safe Space, Nonbinary Sex, nonbinary-supportNon-OpPractical Androgyny, Pride Flags for Us, The Pronoun Learning ResourceQueerabilityQueer Dictionary, safequeersexThe Safe Space NetworkSmashing the BinaryThe —- Space!T.R.A.N.S.Transcending Anatomy, Transgender Housing Network, The Transgender Teen’s Survival Guidetransqueery, Trans* ResourceTrans Student Equality ResourcesTrans*toonsTucking and Other Skills, waryofthebinaryWe Are Gender-Fluid!, whatdoesenbymeanygender[queer]

GQ and Non-Binary Friendly Subreddits


GQ and Non-Binary Friendly Livejournal Communities

AndrogynesBigenderBirlsgender_fluidGenderqueerGirlfags and Guydykes, non_binary(re)definitionTransgender

GQ and Non-Binary Friendly deviantART Groups


Websites and FAQs

Androgyny Rarely Asked Questions, CrossdreamersGenderfork, GenderologyGenderpediaGenderqueer in the UKGenderQueer Revolution, Gender Sphere, Gender Splendour, Heartland Trans* Wellness Group,, Non-Op: Another Option (Archived), pipisafoat: FAQ on Genderqueers, Gender Expression, and Gender VariancePractical Androgyny, Queer Lexikon (German), Tipping the ScalesT-Vox, We Happy TransWorld Professional Association for Transgender HealthYGender

Organizations and Events: Click here for a list

Forums and Groups

AVEN: Gender DiscussionGenderQueer Atheists Group on Genderqueers GroupLaura’s Playground, Scarleteen: Gender Issues, Steam Community: GenderqueerSusan’s Place, #transchatTransYada, TQ NationWhat is Gender?

Identity Sites

Androgyne OnlineBigenderBi-Gender the Bisexual Partner, GirlFags (Archived),, Neutrois Nonsense

Prounouns and Titles

The Art of Transliness: Gender Neutral Relational Terms, Gender Neutral Pronoun Blog, Gender Queeries: Gender Neutral/Queer Titles, Genderqueer in the UK: Misc, or Mx: A Gender-neutral TitleMIT’s Ally Toolkit: Gender Neutral Pronoun Usage, Warren Wilson: Using Gender-Neutral Language in Academic Writing

Articles: Click here for a list

Fun, Videos, Podcasts, & Performance

Agender EarthwormFacts About Queers (Humor), Fuck Yeah Non-Binary SeahorseGenderqueer ChatGendercast: Our Transmasculine GenderqueeryGenderqueer Giraffe, Gender QueeriesKreative Korporation: Yay genderform! (a comprehensive and fun-to-play-with list of gender, sex, orientation, and more identities), Midwest Genderqueerregender: A Different Kind of TranslatorTrans Parrotfish


Gender Diversity ProjectGender Spectrum: Resources, Queer Teaching TipsSafe Schools CoalitionTRANScending Identities: A Bibliography of Resources on Transgender and Intersex Topics, Trans What?: A Guide Towards Allyship

Sex Ed: Click here for a list

The Trevor Project: “The leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services” to LGBT youth: 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386) Also available for matters of less pressing urgency, Dear Trevor is an “online, non-time sensitive Question & Answer resource for young people with questions surrounding sexual orientation and gender identity.” A directory of previous questions in the category of Transgender/Genderqueer is also available.

Social Media

Click here for a list of social media with options apart from male and female, as well as scripts to alter options on websites that don’t provide these options by default

Fashion and Transitional Gear: Click here for a list

Banner: This Journal is Gay/Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Transgender, Intersex, Genderqueer, Asexual Positive banner (with flags). Designed by Neth Dugan.


Note: Use, the world’s largest global library catalog, to see if the book you’re seeking is available at a library near you or click the links below to be directed to an Amazon purchase link (when available).

The Gender Book - Mel Reiff Hill and Jay Mays

Gender Now Coloring Book - Maya Christina Gonzales

Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us - Kate Bornstein

Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation - Kate Bornstein

Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws - Kate Bornstein

My New Gender Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving World Peace Through Gender Anarchy and Sex Positivity - Kate Bornstein

Books and essays by Ivan Coyote

Grrl Alex: A Personal Journey to a Transgender Identity - Alex Drummond

GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary - Joan Nestle, Riki Wilchins, Clare Howell

Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore

PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality - Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel

Queer Theory, Gender Theory - Riki Anne Wilchins

Read My Lips: Sexual Subversion and the End of Gender - Riki Anne Wilchins

Trans Bodies, Trans Selves (in-progress) - Laura Erickson-Schroth

whatever.odt (free!) - JD O’Meara

Feeling Wrong in Your Own Body: Understanding What It Means to Be Transgender - Jamie A. Seba

That’s Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore

Transgender Voices: Beyond Women and Men - Lori B. Girshick and Jamison Green

Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender Identity - Reid Vanderburgh

(Looking for a list of books concerning gender, sex, and orientation that aren’t genderqueer specific instead? Click here)

Book lists compiled by others:

Bibliography of Books Concerning Androgynes and Androgyny

Booklist for Trans Youth on Goodreads

Genderqueer Chicago on Goodreads